ETC. ETC. ETC.

People who try to tell people how they should identify their bodies. I just read a post stating how basically delusional women who are “fat” are for using the word “chubby” to identify THEIR bodies when they are really (supposedly) BBW’s.

First, it’s their body and how they choose to label their body isn’t your fucking concern. How about you worry on your shit than the size of someone else? Secondly have you recently looked up PC words to describe large bodies? Clearly you haven’t, cause I cant find any. Google image search the terms BBW and chubby. BBW is primarily used to describe a fetish, to sexualize large bodied people, thats clearly stated in image searches. Chubby images pop up with cute children with large cheeks. Which in itself disgusts me but I won’t continue with this.

Just because you think it’s acceptable to tell people how they need to label their feelings about their physical appearance maybe you need to realize something: Just because fat bodies are fat DOES NOT MAKE US A FETISH. We shouldn’t have to be forced to be objected to the term BBW if we don’t want to. Do I have a problem with it? No I PERSONALLY don’t, not when it comes down to describing the sort of fetish modeling I do. I control my content and post what I think the term BBW should encompass, strong beautiful woman who embrace their large bodies and should not feel bad about being a sexual creature. My content is not pornographic in nature, but it is FETISH modeling. Does it offend me as a day to day woman? Yes. I believe we all have some sort of initial attraction to a physical feature that draws us in. Example: I usual am initially attracted to men taller than me. But here’s the why BBW to describe all large body woman is offensive. A guy walks up to a girl who has large breasts, after making small conversation if he uttered “I really like girls with huge tits, we should go out.” She’s being sexually objectified as if the only reason why she is desirable is for her boobs. We as a culture are slowly growing to not accept the size of our breasts as what makes us desirable. So what makes it ok for a sexualized term being used to make large bodies be deemed desirable? “I really like BBWs, we should go out.” You really like porn that typically portrays large bodied women having sex with typically thin men? So because I’m fat like the woman you like in porn we should go out? I don’t want to to have to feel that you only find me attractive based off my size. I want to feel desired because I am a desirable woman. What’s worse is because fat bodies aren’t socially acceptable for the most part it’s often treated like a hand out for a fat woman to get attention.

Maybe you’ve never been pigeon holed into your physical attributes being why someone is so generous to give you a chance, but I have. I love my fat body. But my fat body isn’t what makes me me. It’s a part of it, but if you asked me what things have made me the way I am today I would not rank being fat anywhere on that list. So I shouldn’t have to be stuck under a label that makes me only feel worthy as a woman because of someone else’s fetish.

I don’t fucking care what size body you’re talking about either, thin, average, fat, large, chubby. It is NOT your place to be the one to identify since you’re not the one living in it.

Is there’s no doubt I’m getting laid tonight.

Not worst. Just fuckin shitty.